Why people cheat?

So, are cheaters born cheaters, or do certain situations cause people to cheat? Probably a little bit of both. Here are some situations that make people cheat:

1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.

2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.

3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.

4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.

5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.

6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.

7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.

8. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.

Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?

I am not perfect!

All of us are not perfect... we commit mistakes, we hurt our friends, hurt our self and sometimes we even hurt our love ones. We are just human... we commit errors... we are not perfect.

I would like to share my own experience... I am a girl who have a loving boyfriend who resides far from my place. but visits me often.. A boyfriend who gives everything to me.. but still I was not contented...

I was tempted to see with another guy who is my classmate back here at my place. We often see each other... we go out, eat, talk and laugh. My boyfriend knew all these things because I told him everything... He became sad when he heard these things but still he preferred to be with me despite the bad things I've done...

... I stopped seeing this "classmate of mine" because I want to focus on my boyfriend. I want to prove to my BF that I love him... but I don't know why I'm so weak... I tend to forget my promise... I hurt him again... I'm such a stupid cheater girlfriend!

Please give me another chance. I will try my best to be strong again.

What keeps me busy?

This past few days, I was very busy because of our Integrated Seminar. This seminar is part of our Related-Learning-Experience as nursing students of our Institution. From Day 1 to Day 3, there were different topics discussed by the speaker (e.g. Job searching, English Proficiency and etc.). The seminar was enjoyable but tiring. Here are some pictures of our seminar:

Sister and I (Day 1 attire)

FRIENDS!!!

During the second day of our seminar, we were tasked to design the venue and run the program. Here are some pictures during the second day:

Okay, okay, last day was so much fun! Here are our pics!

If you want to see more pics, just click HERE.

Francis Magalona

I was shocked when I heard the news that Francis Magalona was dead. I though he will still live a little longer but I was wrong. I am a follower of his blog, I've read he's posts about his treatment: Chemotherapy. Here's some photos found on his last post:


Everything has a purpose Francis.

No, no to this question...

Never ask this question to anybody!
Love comes without asking for it...